Spiritual Abuse Healing Retreat

February 19-22, 2026 | Manzanita, OR

This retreat is intended for those seeking healing and care from the harm of spiritual & narcissistic abuse, whether that occurred in a church, a group, a family, or a context such as evangelical purity culture. 

$1800 for single room | $1600 for shared room

$500 deposit required to confirm registration. After deposit, payment may be made in 1 or 2 installments. If additional installments are needed, please let us know!

Registration covers all meals, 5 group sessions, bodywork session, and lodging.

Photo by Andrea Peer & used with permission.

We will gather in a beautiful oceanfront home on the Oregon coast for 4 days of personal & group process, locally-sourced meals, and guided practices intended to bring care for those injured by spiritual and narcissistic abuse.

What can you expect?

  • This is a facilitated space for participants to process and receive care for a story or experience of spiritual abuse. Group times will include teaching on narcissism and spiritual abuse, as well as engagement around personal stories of harm.

  • You will be invited to write a specific experience or story of spiritual abuse. For some of you, that might be a specific event. And for others, it may be a larger context that you were in. There is no right or wrong story to bring. You’re then invited to bring your written story to the retreat and during the small group time, you will have the opportunity to read it out loud, and Jill and Rebekah will then facilitate a time for the group to process your story or experience with you. 

    We will send you some steps for preparation as we move closer to the retreat, but in the meantime, we recommend beginning to consider your own story(s) of spiritual abuse. Maybe you have a significant event, or perhaps your experience felt more subtle. There is no right or wrong experience or story to bring, so for now, just begin to notice what arises.

  • A bodywork session will be offered by a certified professional with more information to come regarding the modality. 

    This is intended to provide additional care for your body as you process the impact of spiritual abuse.


  • We will have guided group practices, as well as individual practices, that will provide a structured way to grieve, rage, or process other emotions. These practices will give your mind, heart, and bodies concrete action to process the impact of spiritual abuse.

    Examples could include chopping wood to process anger, burning hand-written letters to abusive systems, and marking thresholds.

Jill Dyer

Rebekah Vickery

  • Certified Clinical Trauma Professional

    Jill is a trauma practitioner certified in Narrative Focused Trauma Care and Janina Fisher’s Certified Clinical Professional Trauma training. Jill specializes in the areas of traumatic attachment, reparenting, spiritual abuse, sexual abuse and embodied healing, and is currently in the process of becoming certified as a Biofield Tuning Practitioner.

  • Licensed mental health counselor

    Rebekah is a licensed mental health counselor specializing in complex trauma and recovery from narcissistic abuse and domestic violence.

  • “The care, love and attunement were beyond what I imagined.”

    2025 participant

  • “I was so moved by the intentionality behind everything—the gifts, the rhythm, the way every detail held meaning. I’ve thought about that weekend so often…It was a place where the hard could be held more fully…And it was even more powerful because it was in person—living those few days together, sharing meals and time, being with each other in all of it.”

    2025 participant

  • “These were definitely sacred spaces. I think hearing the stories of others and interacting with those is key to helping us to feel validated and cared for.”

    2025 participant

  • What meant the most to me was how you held space for the complexity we each carried…That permission to be in process was a profound gift.”

    2025 participant